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Saturday, July 21, 2012


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this reminds me of..

"And if you don't commit?"
"Your choice. But you miss what's on the other side"
"What's on the other side?"
"A happiness you cannot find alone"

From Mitch Albom's Tuesdays with Morrie, on commitment and staying power in faith and in marriage.


the happiness that you cannot find alone.

wallahualam. all that happened is because of His plans. Only He knows what is the best for us.

Like you, I sometimes feels lonely too but at the same time, I wonder what it would be like to share this feelings that I have with someone else.

Until I meet that person, I'm gonna just enjoy my own company.


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Enjoying the sweet solitude doesn't mean you are lonely. I love the solitude too.Sometimes I enjoy watching movie at the nearby cinema by myself. And I love going out alone sometimes. Alhamdulillah I never feel lonely.

I used to have so-called someone special once (when I was quite young and immature)..Nevertheless, I felt lonely, lonelier than before to be honest (cuz he doesn't love me)..Alhamdulillah, right now despite I've no so called someone special, I don't feel lonely as I've Ar-Rahman.

But the yearning to love and be loved is inevitable. Well fadz, it's okay to enjoy the solitude but when the right time comes, I think you shouldn't shove it away as you might miss something that is invaluable.

Fadzlishah Johanabas

Dayana & Jannah,

I'm a great believer of soulmates. For every person, there is (at least) one person who is a great match. I don't need to look far; my own siblings have found their soulmates, and even though they have their ups and downs, they are genuinely happy.

Do I want the same for myself? Maybe. I'd be lying if I say I don't. I want to hold her in front of me and kiss away that stray eyelash from her cheek. I want her to be the focus of the pictures I take. I want to walk beside her, holding her hand. I want to protect her from the ugliness of the world. Whomever she may be.

One day.

But right now, despite the burning question by friends and relatives, I want everyone to know that I am all right on my own. Everyone should know by now that I am not like others; I don't have the urge to procreate. I'm just taking one day at a time, breathing in every sunrise, every sunset.

Both of you are too young to ever give up on love. There is a soulmate out there. God is Great. He has plans, indeed.

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Haha don't get me wrong Fadz. I'm not saying that we have to give up on love. What I meant was, when we've found that person,our soul mate, we shouldn't let that opportunity to slip away. I'm a hopeless romantic being, how can I give up miahaha.

For the mean time, just enjoy your life. But, when the right time comes, don't let it go.

Yasmin Ilyas

wow.I came across your blog on a friends page.randomly started reading,and havent stopped-4 hours straight!being post call and all.

i could really identify with a lot of things that you write about,got me all wide eyed and awake.just thought you should know.


Fadzlishah Johanabas

Thanks, Yasmin!

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